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Socks & Sandals, Christmas Lights and Blow Jobs.

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Do you know what…joking aside I actually find socks and sandals attractive! I don’t know if it is harking back to 1970’s porn, Dads on beaches, the Germen men on I have seen on campsites; striding around 100ft tall or maybe it is an aesthetic just too lowly for refined sensibilities; but I really do find it strangely arousing.

I think it is because I love men, I love people – I love their mundane, their ordinary, their banal.

I get aroused at houses that have Christmas lights outside – the male (usually male I assume) has planned, has been out in the cold, has been working hard…getting frustrated, his fingers cold, his cheeks pink from wind and exertion…..for what…to please his neighbourhood? to wind up his neighbours? to please his wife? to escape his wife? to make memories for his children? to remember his children? who knows…but I love him in his endeavours and I really hope that he gets his fair share of blow jobs…but somehow I don’t think he does.

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About Prim Quim

I am an artist and therapist. I work within the themes of sexuality, repression, guilt, greed, contradiction, objectification, compulsion, itches that need to be scratched and bruises that need to be pressed. I am a consentual bruise presser, a boundary straddler and limit pusher. I interview people and witness their lives, I write about what I see, how I feel and all the beautiful fragments that make up my reality. I am the sum of all my parts - some bits move and other parts are static, some bits need oiling and other bits just run and run. I am both subject and object to myself. I am slave to my Art and so are the others who come into my sphere. I objectify and use, interrogate and examine - I need their reality and reasoning to lay alongside my own to compare, contrast, season and gorge upon. Exponent of automatic writing, compulsive self realisation and daring myself to go further.

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